Preparation
There are three separate yet connected phases to the preparation.
1. Notice of Intent to Marry: This is a document (a form), which is provided by us, and is a legal prerequisite to marriage. Up to 18 months notice can be given but a notice must be given at least ONE month prior to the date of marriage to one of our authorized marriage celebrants:
* Rev’d Drew Mellor.
* Rev’d Stephen Petering.
* Rev’d Gary McClellan.
* Rev’d Maria Brand-Starkey (currently on maternity leave).
2. Participation in the Marriage Preparation Course ( including Prepare Inventory):
This Course is conducted twice a year and involves meeting weekly for 5 sessions PLUS extra
sessions (2) with one of the staff. The cost of the course is included in the wedding fees.
3. Preparation of Service of Celebration: Together with the church pastor, the couple would look over the basic service structure and decide on what extra things to include or modify. A draft order of service is available on request for consideration by the engaged couple and their family. Because we offer a Christian service, we would always include:
* Consent of couple and congregation,
* Vows,
* Bible reading and reflection,
* Declaration of Marriage and Blessing,
* Prayer for the couple,
* Signing of the register and
* Presentation of the couple.
These cover what is required legally and by the Church. There are other things that you may include.
Once this is done, you are free to produce an order of service if you so desire. This would be at your discretion and cost. There is no practical need for the provision of an outline for all guests, but it is a common occurrence.
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